If we are unable to forgive others, then we have no real understanding of what God is doing for us. And if we do not recognize that grace of God for us, then we can not truly receive it.
As we pray every time we say the Lord’s Prayer; “forgive us our sins (in the same way) we forgive those who sin against us. It’s a conditional statement. Did you happen to notice that before? It took me years to understand that deeper implication.
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